Kristin,
Kristin you have a very good point. In today's world someone that is trust worthy is very hard to come by and when someone breaks that trust that you have built up with them it can be a very hard thing to deal with. I know what you mean when you say it is hard to be totally repaired. Even though you try to have things be back to the way things were in the back of your mind, no matter how hard you try to not think about it, you still think about how they have hurt you. You picked a very good aphorism to talk about.